Movies vs. reality

This post is probably gonna be a whole load of crap lol idk sorry just bear with me

U know how when we're single, girls almost always (maybe guys) have a certain picture/idea/concept of what they want their future relationship(s)to be like.

eg. Some girls might be fixated on the idea of a fairy tale wedding, poofy dress with a long ass 10ft 9' trail. Some may dream of unleashing their inner gold digger on some rich ass billionaire. Or wish for a guy who would not only like her for the boob size she was granted; maybe even hope for a relationship just like the ones she sees on tumblr GIFs. (Dont lie, u know what I mean) Maybe even lust after the way kanye puts his hands on Kim's waist and kisses her neck in front of everybody, the cliche as hell stories or what hav u of how a guy grabs a girl from behind. Some girls may want a playful relationship, some all about rainbows & butterflies, some all about being real & be able to fart in front of each other.

But the truth of the matter is that, what u see/want/envision is unfortunately not what u get. I mean i'm not gonna lie, I'm happy; we all are. (at least i hope so, cus if ur unhappy in ur relationship run girl!) Sometimes when we see something we want (simply because we dont hav it) we mind fuck ourselves into being jealous WHEN REALLY we know that we cant always have everything we want. I'm being really stereotypical here forgive me i didnt mean to be offensive, but if the guy ur with is a biker/hardmetalrock/ghetto ass man u cant expect him to come with u to watch some ballet eg The nutcracker. Or sit in a chinese opera show or expect him to go shopping in a One direction (haha sorry it was the girliest shop i could think of) store with u & still be happy, now would u?

I mean if he is happy then well done he's a keeper but u know. highly unlikely.

I guess all girls get jealous sometimes & we want things we dont have. e.g. more chanel bags, a birkin, to be kissed in public without having to ask, mcdonalds for bfast lunch & dinner, for the world to be like 'i wanna hav a relationship like that' (which btw, vanessa hudgens & that guy shes with hav achieved), to eat without getting fat & to be a doctor (heh)

So u see, in my humble (trololo) opinion I think it is perfectly acceptable for a girl (guy) to want things that she knows she will never get because maybe those things will bring more bad than good. & maybe if she changes a guy too much, he wont be himself anymore & she is so so scared that he wont be the guy she feel in love with

I feel like ive been rambling, idk if any of these words hav substance btu its 3am & ive been meaning to wrote about this for a while, i just didnt know how